June 21
Luckily, due to icing my knee and taking advil, I am walking without pain. For breakfast I eat the dinner I missed last night, and we return to Victoria Falls, one of the ‘Wonders of the World’. Knowing we will get wet from the spray of the pounding water, we wear ponchos, flip flops, and bring a change of clothes. The double rainbow created by the reflections of the water, the immense depth (1000 meters) and width (1800 meters) of the falls, and the powerful force of the water is spectacular! (pictures 1,2,3) Entranced , I watch it for a long time.
The local market at the falls has more variety of crafts, and after purchasing a pair of Toka masks, and a beautiful carved wood platter with giraffe handles, I take an amazing 15 minute helicopter ride over the falls (picture 4), where I am able to see the magnitude of the falls, and the gorges through which the water flows down to reach the fertile farm land. The Toka people founded Victoria falls in the 1700’s and called it the ‘smoke that thunders’. They wore masks to protect them against the spirit of the Falls.
After returning to Tongabezi for a hot bath and late lunch, I meet Kingsley who joins me for a sunset canoe cruise (picture ). He is a white, rugged, hard working, sensitive man, who grew up on a farm in a country in the middle of Africa. He lives in Johannesburg (aka Jo’Burg), but works all over Africa for a company that builds and manages housing for construction workers, to upscale lodges in an environmentally sensitive way.
We are paddled through gentle rapids, see a few hippos, and pass by the small private island which can be reserved by Tongabezi Lodge guests for camping including all lodge services. We see waves of 1000’s of tiny birds called Queilea, which are like locusts and eat the crops. On the bank of the river I see a very large lizard that looks like a baby alligator. Upon returning, we warm up by the outdoor fire where I meet an extended family from Miami, celebrating the grandparents 50th wedding anniversary. Sarah, the daughter in law, and I connect immediately, play Jewish geography, and find out we know some Miami people in common. The family is in the building business and recently moved to Las Vegas.
Each of the Chalets are different, and one of them is a very cool ‘tree house’ with no walls except the side of a hill as its back wall, and separated from the elements only by one piece of wood railing (picture 5), sitting next to the wide river. I am thinking I could be happy living in this tree house, volunteering my time at the school next door operated by the Lodge, and helping with guest relations.
June 22
I had planned on giving away the sneakers I bought in Israel at the beginning of my travels, my down coat, socks, pens, extra hat, medicines, skin lotions, and anything else the local people might be able to use, prior to leaving Africa. I trade and give away some of the items in the 2 markets I have purchased at, and the rest I gave to staff at the Lodge. The people have very little in Zambia and are very appreciative. With the extra room in my luggage I am able to pack all of my purchases, except the wood carved chair I checked in as my second piece of baggage that 1 week later has not arrived in Miami and the airline does not know where it is!
I would have stayed here longer but I only have a 4 day turn around in Miami before I go to Aspen for 2 months. I am flying to Denver, picking up my car, bike, and my daughter, Ashley who will spend 3 days with me in Aspen. I have only seen her for 2 days in the last 6 months and miss her so much. She is an amazing young women and I am in awe of her.
This is the end of my planned 8 months of the international traveling part of my 12 month journey. I look forward to my continued personal journey in Aspen, Co, which has always been my healing time offering natural beauty, great hiking, biking, world class music festival, July 4th celebration, and time for reading, meditation, and contemplation.
I have appreciated every minute of this opportunity to see many parts of the world. I thank God everyday for this privilege, and for the support and encouragement of my family and friends. . When I analyze what I have accomplished so far on my journey, and the changes I see in myself, I smile and am proud of myself.
Before I made the decision to take a year to travel, I had fears about traveling by myself, not being able to share it with someone I loved, and spending the money and being irresponsible for not working.
This part of my journey was not only well worth every minute and every penny spent, but essential to my personal growth and well being.
I am more comfortable with going with the flow. Have more confidence I can take care of myself. I have given serious thought about what is really important to me and choosing the life I may want. Before, many of the decisions in my life were influenced by the needs of my children and husbands.
I will continue to work on myself in regard to how I interact with and respond to the people around me; remind myself to stay in the present, and have the faith that things are, and will be, as they are supposed to be; and be thankful everyday for the many blessings in my life, especially my children who I love beyond words, my loving sisters and parents who have constantly shown how much they love me, and each of my nieces and nephew who add to my life just by being who they are; my friends who I am lucky to stay connected with, ;and all the comforts I have the privilege of having in my life, and for the State of Israel, which I believe represents not only the Jewish people, but the condition of mankind.
To all of you who have followed my blog, thank you for joining me.